from WOMB to TOMB JUDGEMENT!

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         There are lots of unwanted things that is happening these days or may happen in our lives. Ever since my mom always remind me and my sisters not to have a boyfriend while were still studying. I hate the fact that you know to yourself that your telling the truth and then they wouldn't believe you, they always wanted to just accept it even if you didn't do it. Why are these people so judgemental? OKAY. I wanna clear this up. I'm not referring to my parents, instead this blog is addressed to all the guilty individual who will be reading this article. 

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         When I was in college I heared about my high school classmates getting pregnant. I hate the fact that they can't STOP or PROTECT themselves from being pregnant. So, when I started my A&P course as part of my nursing career. I realized how these neurochemicals or neurotransmitters in our brain works together and fall in love as easy as we breath! I learned how opposite sex attracts I learned how these hormones file together to make significant changes physically, mentally and emotionally. Of course, I simply learned how these people react in every problems they've encountered. One of the PERFECT example is the "UNWANTED PREGNANCY". When our parenst heared about this news , they get to overreact which is normal. You expect to happen that you father will be the silent one but the most dangerous person you can deal with so better not talk to him. In addition, you have to expect as wel you neighbors would be THE MOST JUDGEMENTAL people in the world that you wish to close your eyes and cover your ears for you not to be very stressed out in watching the way they look at you and listens the way they judge you. These people should be aware that they shouldn't react that much. It isn't easy to be pregnant. They shouldn't scold, give problems and even shout to the pregnant woman. They should consider the fetus inside that woman, the fetus will be the first one to be affected of how the mother feels about the strees that she is into. Here's another thing I am concerned about, when the baby's finally out your parents and all of the people around you especially your neighbors who made you feel so stressed are the first one who would be very glad and congratulate you despite of the hardship from the day that you knew that you're  pregnant until the day that your first child is born. 

         Years after, you and your partner will decide to marry and then the same people that you are going to invite are again the people who used to stop and contradict your boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. Another intimidating part, is when your first child turns 3 years old or more and then they would ask, "When will you and your partner plan to have your second child?" or maybe suggest it directly unto you face! Great!! these people proven "H-A-R-S-H" I repeat H.A.R.S.H!! At first, they'll talk about your mistakes but then again after years or so they will just easily enter into your lives without even thinking how rude they are before. 

What traveller are you?

           It's the first day of  FEBRUARY 2012 and it's my fifth day here in my hometown and for that 5 days, i spent my time into travelling everyday since the day that i arrived. 

         If you ask me of what's the best thing about travelling? Hmm.. Limme think! YES, i got it now..I have tragic and fun experiences in travelling. It was fun especially when we hang out with my family in Bohol and attended my sister's wedding in Cebu City that was last 2005. There are also some tragic experiences like vomiting inside the bus and a ferry boat back when I was a kid, got sleep for hours in the terminal while waiting in the next bus, got stuck in a new place while waiting because the bus' tire needs to be fixed, and the most damn thing that would could pissed me meeting pervert and flirty passengers.

         Those were the BEST about travelling. You could be exposed in different kinds of people. Good, bad, concerned, flirtious, perverts, sick and even hilarious people. You got to adjust whenever or wherever you could encounter them. So, limme ask you this question. What traveller are you?

THINKING TWICE: a two way process!

Its exactly 10:30 in the evening and you've got a pen and an empty space notebook while comfortably sitting in the sofa. Deeply wondering of what should you do for you to make use of your precious time. I maybe confused now but believe me i can still end up and catch up what my brain is trying to express.

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I'll tell you what!! I really missed writing and sharing what my experiences are. I even enjoy it by expressing through my colleagues, cousins and maybe a stranger. Eversince, I always wanted to be silent for at least a week or so. I remember when I had an argument with my mom last December 31, 2011. We never talked for at least three days. I think that was the longest time that I was so silent. I'll tell you again what's the feeling of being untrue to yourself. It was freakin' different!! It feels like you dunno who you are. You feel sad, very much confused, guilty, stressed out alone and withdrew. It feels like you're an alien, nobody talks to you, nobody cares and no one checks on you if ever you've eaten well enough or if you're still breathing or not.

So I should say it isn't fun to be different. Yes! you maybe thinking of changing something about your attitude or maybe your looks but the choice is yours. If you think it's good enough to change then let it be but if you think it could harm to someone or to yourself then better STOP it. One more thing, when you're not sure enough on what you're gonna do, you should seriously think twice.

If you would wanna know how to decide then start looking a guide to help you. My suggestion? READ A BOOK that indicates your concern.

Remember, taking risks is a never ending search and searching helps you gain an additional knowledge. So do it now and don't let this chance get on you. Just like in sales 5 prospects a salesperson has; 4 is the salesperson actually sees; 3 listens to the presentation and 1 say YES! So, are you the one who would say YES? THINK TWICE!!!